Second Nephi 4:20

My God hath been my support; he hath led me through mine afflictions in the wilderness; and he hath preserved me upon the waters of the great deep.

No doubt Nephi suffered in the wilderness and crossing the ocean. But he did not blame God. He recognized the hand of God in helping him through his hardest times. Nephi's attitude is the example for us in our hard times. Our trials are a blessing if we turn to God, because we will come to know him. Nephi would not have been the prophet and leader that he was without his wilderness experience.